Think you're just too tired to get in the mood? You've got a lot of company. Studies show that women who work outside the home continue to devote more hours to child care and housework than their spouses do. Most of us have no time at all to decompress between the day's work and the evening's chores—and that stressed feeling often translates into "I'm not in the mood." The solution? Use your
bargaining power outside the bedroom to buy yourself time to get revved up for lovemaking.
